cute date idea: let me sleep in your bed for hours on end because I’m tired of being a person
#john barrowman is having none of your misogynist bullshit
i love that barrowman’s response also distances him from the contestant
"hahahaha women do laundry right john? you with me, john?"
"don’t lump me in with you, you fucking martian”
This is what I’m talking about when I keep saying that men have to deny the endorsement. This guy wanted Barrowman’s tacit support or agreement for his sexism, as part of bonding through humour. John went nope.
this is what I need from the men in my life
you want us to believe you don’t hate us? I need to hear this come out of your mouths when we are in a group situation and one of the guys thinks he’s being funny
when you shuffle awkwardly and tell me AFTERWARDS that so-and-so was being a dick that has precisely ZERO value to me okay?
Seriously, this is such a huge problem. Men want to seem cool to other men so when you call men on their shit you’re actively saying “that ain’t cool” and it makes them see dumb and then they don’t do it as much. I don’t care too much for guys who are only feminists when around women.
Bold italics mine cuz TRUTH!
I don’t do private apologies after someone has tried to humiliate me in public. If you’re gonna act out in public then don’t be a fuckin’ coward and try to make amends in private so that YOU won’t be embarrassed.
(Source: kaniehtiio, via warcrimenancydrew)
They don’t know your goals.
They don’t have your passion.
They don’t share your dedication.
They don’t make your sacrifices.
They don’t suffer your consequences.
They don’t get your results.
They don’t have your strength or courage.
They don’t know whats best for you.